this is one major discouraging factors that affects the home. Parents are quick to criticize one another especially in a case where couple have different ways of doing things, including method of correcting the children.
Solution
As a parent, you must understand that your way isn't better than the your partner's. and so welcome ideas and rob mind together.
after all, we all know that two good heads are better than your single one...lol but true dah!
2. Me Time
If you are the kind that always wants a me time, don't bear children because as soon as you do, don't you would not always have that 'me time'.
- as parent, do you leave your children to themselves, believing that they will cope with life all alone, just because you want to always have your way?
How many hours of the day do you spend with your child?
How much of your children can you boast that you know of?
One thing Parents should note is that those children are your number one priority and not even you should come before them except in a situation where you’ll have to ascertain if something is safe enough for them before they get involved.
Good news
you can have that 'me time' but not always... yap!
3. House/Baby & the Spouse.
owhhh!
What schedule of duty can make you be the attendant for all 3? well, proper planning will do you good.
let the Child who is old enough to do the dishes do them while you prepare meal for the family. #just an example# after all you can't stress yourself out, especially on things you can manage.
‘I LOVE CHILDREN’ these words alone are not enough, you must be prepared for the responsibilities attached to being a mother or a father.
To nurture
Love
Train
Guide
Provide
Direct
Correct
Protect
Patience & tolerance will both be a useful key for you... don't forget this
If you are not IN for these and more, don’t bother dreaming of parenting a child, allow those who are ready do it.
Sure you can do it & so DO IT!
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