Men: Ways To Be Responsible

• Stay very far away from pornographic materials; Its not worth the trouble because you will be hurting your heart. It will affect the way you treat your spouse + you need to strive for purity.

• Treat women with respect

• Provide for your families ; don’t shift responsibility to your wife if you are married. To remain the head of the home (practically), provide. When it look like a woman is controlling the home, check well, it’s either the man is not living up to expectation or the woman had a domineering attitude. Most times it’s the former.

• Learn the act of prayer; a lot of men don’t pray with their families talk less of going to church. Please work on this area if you find your self on this line.

• Forgive others for their mistakes; don’t bottle up what you should share and resolve. Pride can make you not to, don’t let it!

• Find ways to upgrade yourself; Try new skills, if possible meet someone to teach you that thing that you have always wanted to know

• Give. Givers they say never lack. Help others, whether it be a friend, collegue, family members or even someone you just met.

• Learn to be TRUE to your words; when you say yes, let your yes be yes. Keep your promises when ever you make one.

• Humility pays, be humble even when you are tempted not to. Speak to people politely and treat people like they matter.

• Manage Money responsibly; don’t go about drinking when you have an uncompleted building, or have a children school fees to pay.

• Get wisdom and use it

• Be in control of your temper; we know that it’s not all men that has the anger-thing & if you do, talk to someone about it, learn to be quiet at that point and then take time to think before you speak so that you don’t speak fire.