Insincere Compliment is one of those little thing that we tend to also ignore.
The bible talks about taking away the little foxes that destroys the vine in Song of Solomon 2:15
Proverbs 20:19b the Bible warns us not to meddle with him that flatters with his lips*gtg*
Psalm 78:36 & 37 tells of those who even flatter God with their mouth, when their heart is far from what they say
Telling your colleague, subordinate or boss that their report, letters or presentation is in perfect arrangement even after you've notice there are one or two incorrect spellings that needs their attention, is an insincere compliment
Or encouraging someone whose C.V is not well constructed, telling them that their C.V is one of the best you have ever seen. Is an insincere compliment.
Telling your friend his shirt, tie and shoe fits perfectly when the color are obviously rioting is an insincere compliment.[-(
Telling a lady that her hair fits her perfectly when you know that the hair style itself is cool but doesn't fit her face. It's an insincere compliment.
Saying to one whose feet looks so un kept or whose nails are too long, rainbow colored and irritating, oh! How beautiful... I wish I could make mine exactly this way but in your heart you say it's disgusting. That's a serious insincere compliment.
Be honest and true, Dealing in the FEAR of GOD is the best way to relate.
If you cannot speak the truth 'in love' please be silent on a matter.
Nevertheless, don't go about making people feel bad of themselves because the way at which you choose to relate your observation matters a lot. Ensure you don't major on pulling down self esteem with that compliment of yours.
More-so, you can avoid the compliments, you mustn't give one anyway.
Look into this as you relate with others each day.
Look into this as you relate with others each day.
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