If you are aren't a force-personnel, what's the A....tte....ntion! For? We all know the way Force men salute, well, when you do unnecessary stop-and-greet(engaging in unnecessary activities) while journeying through life then it can be said of you to be standing still.
One good evidence of a living man is his movement. This movement could either be a straight or an upwards-downwards one. And so a stand-still is a dangerous position to be because it signifies a lifeless state.
Life rocks but don't get rocked out of shape, ideas, growth, expansion and progress.
One good way to stand-still is waiting for everybody's approval of you or chasing their shadows so they can place you somewhere in life, just because you think they have all it takes to make you who you would like to become. Please don't make this mistake, it will keep you on the 'still' mood, just like what the pause botton on your remote control device does to your movie or music.
Secondly, try as much as you can not to always get engaged in unprofitable argument, it leads nowhere.
Never reject good advice or avoid wise counsel
Please have this in mind; When you see your ways, ideas, perspectives, suggestion, as better than every other person's, you are keeping your self at the stand still position.
If you fail to update yourself in your career line, you will be at a stand still
When you refuse to learn new things by un learning what needs to be un learnt , that's a stand still position, please MOVE!
Do you hold grudges and refuse to let go because you have this conviction that you are right and the other person is definitely wrong? Mmnn... your fingers are leaning on the 'pause' button again.
And then you refuse to share what you know that'll be beneficial to your group, just because you want all the credit to yourself? Well, you are on a stand-still position
Life is about movement; encourage yourself and believe, let go of little things, embrace new ones, skip the beat of grudges and stay open to change (positive change) and you'll notice how fast you'll move and how far you can get on this journey of succesful movement in life.
GIVE IT A SHOT!
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Wednesday, 23 December 2015
A Wrong Time To Fail
Failure is for only those who plan to fail... oh yes!
Does anyone plan to fail? Well, yes; when you stop on your way to success, just to ask direction from 'self pity' who directs you instead, to the road that leads to excuses. Then it can be said that you actually created room for failure.
Failure is the place where you rest at that moment when you feel you can't go further.
The first place anyone fails from is their heart. How can you put your effort to halt?
The effort you have put in so far, to gain that contract, to be the best fashion designer, the unique hair maker, the best financial analyst, the most skillful footballer,boxer, wrestler, the most sought after plumber, engineer, builder, the ireplacable parent, the creative makeup artist.
How can you come this far to quite, how can you?
Never give-in to pressure, weakness, laziness, discouragement. These things are just like stairs that should lead you to the top.
Also remember to manage your weaknesses, we all have two or more of them. Study yourself, identify your area of strength and know this; where you have the opposite is where the weakness lies. State out those weaknesses and work on them one after the other.
Don't be a trash can, where any and everybody can come dump their garbage. Meaning? Don't respond to every words spoken to you or actions taken against you.
are you learning a trade and your master is giving you tough time, so tough that you feel like calling it off or the boss you are trying so hard to please does not even acknowledge your effort, or you feel your coach is being sentimental?
And for this reason, you feel like quitting the job,the team, the home,school. Don't!
Well, it's natural to feel so but you should equally understand that the reason why its looking this tough is because you are on the right part and closer to achieving your aim. Remember, the darkest night is close to the day.
Don't be discouraged my friend, hold on a little longer while pressing on.
Get this: It's too late to quiet, NOW IS THE WRONG TIME TO STOP and fail
Does anyone plan to fail? Well, yes; when you stop on your way to success, just to ask direction from 'self pity' who directs you instead, to the road that leads to excuses. Then it can be said that you actually created room for failure.
Failure is the place where you rest at that moment when you feel you can't go further.
The first place anyone fails from is their heart. How can you put your effort to halt?
The effort you have put in so far, to gain that contract, to be the best fashion designer, the unique hair maker, the best financial analyst, the most skillful footballer,boxer, wrestler, the most sought after plumber, engineer, builder, the ireplacable parent, the creative makeup artist.
How can you come this far to quite, how can you?
Never give-in to pressure, weakness, laziness, discouragement. These things are just like stairs that should lead you to the top.
Also remember to manage your weaknesses, we all have two or more of them. Study yourself, identify your area of strength and know this; where you have the opposite is where the weakness lies. State out those weaknesses and work on them one after the other.
Don't be a trash can, where any and everybody can come dump their garbage. Meaning? Don't respond to every words spoken to you or actions taken against you.
are you learning a trade and your master is giving you tough time, so tough that you feel like calling it off or the boss you are trying so hard to please does not even acknowledge your effort, or you feel your coach is being sentimental?
And for this reason, you feel like quitting the job,the team, the home,school. Don't!
Well, it's natural to feel so but you should equally understand that the reason why its looking this tough is because you are on the right part and closer to achieving your aim. Remember, the darkest night is close to the day.
Don't be discouraged my friend, hold on a little longer while pressing on.
Get this: It's too late to quiet, NOW IS THE WRONG TIME TO STOP and fail
A New Start (the Job)
As the year rolls by, we all should ensure that adequate arrangement is being made toward the coming year.
I know you are tempted to start putting on-paper those unrealistic plans for 2016. Yes, I call it unrealistic because most people do not set SMART goals, they only want to join the band wagon of 'activity-personnels'.
S= specific
M= measurable
A= attainable
R= realistic
T= timely
You need to sit up and do things the right way and the right way mustn't be every other person's way but a convinced way that will work.
your job is a vital aspect of your life because most of your time is spent at work. And so, let's talk about "a new start at work"
Year 2016 is a brand new year, and so make up your mind to start in a brand new way, move in a grand-style.
Determine not to do things the usual way, you have the capacity to think-up new things; new method of solving problems, new way of relating with colleagues, new ideas to share with your boss or superior.
I challenge you to find something new, do a discovery;
Discover something new about using the computer,
a better way of understanding individual (those you relate with in the course of the job), identify their differences and relate with each one in their peculiar way (the method Is very profitable, please try it ) .
Cultivate the habit of not only reading periodicals and magazine, also read people, learnt that act.
Know what motivates others to do their job and incase you work in group, use that skill to get others involve in the task at hand.
Do not pick offence when you are corrected, instead pick a lesson and act on it.
Don't get involved in the 'eye-service' duty this coming year, do the needful. Even when the required is not available, make do with what is available.
Work with time and always remember that you can only use time to your advantage because you can't control it.
Do not get carried away with competition, sometimes the people that you compete with do not have so much to offer, even if they have, what they can do is limited and so if you keep doing what they are doing, who will do something new?
Finally, no matter how much you are being paid, work as if you own the business because some day you will own yours and the law of karma will come knocking.
Nice year so far but I expect a better you in 2016
I know you are tempted to start putting on-paper those unrealistic plans for 2016. Yes, I call it unrealistic because most people do not set SMART goals, they only want to join the band wagon of 'activity-personnels'.
S= specific
M= measurable
A= attainable
R= realistic
T= timely
You need to sit up and do things the right way and the right way mustn't be every other person's way but a convinced way that will work.
your job is a vital aspect of your life because most of your time is spent at work. And so, let's talk about "a new start at work"
Year 2016 is a brand new year, and so make up your mind to start in a brand new way, move in a grand-style.
Determine not to do things the usual way, you have the capacity to think-up new things; new method of solving problems, new way of relating with colleagues, new ideas to share with your boss or superior.
I challenge you to find something new, do a discovery;
Discover something new about using the computer,
a better way of understanding individual (those you relate with in the course of the job), identify their differences and relate with each one in their peculiar way (the method Is very profitable, please try it ) .
Cultivate the habit of not only reading periodicals and magazine, also read people, learnt that act.
Know what motivates others to do their job and incase you work in group, use that skill to get others involve in the task at hand.
Do not pick offence when you are corrected, instead pick a lesson and act on it.
Work with time and always remember that you can only use time to your advantage because you can't control it.
Do not get carried away with competition, sometimes the people that you compete with do not have so much to offer, even if they have, what they can do is limited and so if you keep doing what they are doing, who will do something new?
Finally, no matter how much you are being paid, work as if you own the business because some day you will own yours and the law of karma will come knocking.
Nice year so far but I expect a better you in 2016
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